Holding It Lightly

16. How to Experience Life, Not Deliver Outcomes

Join Lauren and Brad as they make the case for laziness - sort of....this week explores the art of embracing life's flow and essence while moving beyond a fixation on outcomes. They delve into the concept of creating art for the sheer joy of being and self-expression, emphasizing the value of this pure approach over a results-driven mindset. In this episode, we also discuss the merits of embracing laziness and question the pervasive nature of hustle culture, highlighting its disregard for the essence of humanity. We delve into thought-provoking questions surrounding purpose: What does purpose entail? How can one uncover their purpose? And most importantly, how does one separate purpose from the notion of financial gain and time monetization. Lauren Douglass and Brad Stuart take you on a deep dive into this thought-provoking topic of purpose. 
 
References:
Oliver Burkeman: Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals
Richard Rohr: The Naked Now: Learning To See As the Mystics See
 

15. The Beauty is in the Journey: Deconstruction to Reconstruction

Join Brad and Lauren on this week's episode of "Holding It Lightly" as they explore the profound themes of deconstruction and reconstruction in personal belief systems. They delve into the challenging process of stepping away from the familiar structures of religion, community, and faith, unraveling and examining each facet along the way. Both hosts candidly share their journeys of deconstructing traditional notions of faith and spirituality, reflecting on the complexities and revelations that arise from questioning deeply held beliefs. Listen in as Lauren Douglass and Brad Stuart discuss the transformative process of reconstruction and what it entails to rebuild a spiritual path that is rooted in love, openness, kindness, and a vibrant connection to life and spirit.

14. All About LOVE

Love is on the brain this week! Tune in to this week's episode of where Lauren and Brad explore the profound topic of love. Together they delve into questions like "What is love?" and "How do we obtain it?" guided by the wisdom found in Bell Hooks' book "All About Love." Listen to them examine why society has often presented us with a skewed definition of love and how we can cultivate a more mature perspective to construct a life abundant with love. Join your favorite hosts, Lauren Douglass and Brad Stuart, as they discuss love.

13. We are All Just Animal (Instincts)

Join Lauren and Brad for this week's episode of Holding It Lightly as we explore the fascinating realm of Enneagram instincts. They say that while a thought moves at the speed of x, an emotion moves at 10x, and your instinct races at 100x. In this episode, we delve into the three primal instincts that drive us from the depths of our gut: Self-preservation, Sexual, and Social. Tune in to join Lauren Douglass and Brad Stuart to discover what might be fueling your actions, and how you can transcend these instincts to lead a more conscious and fulfilling life.

12. How to Have Faith & to Learn to Trust Yourself

Tune in to this week's episode of Holding It Lightly, where Brad and Lauren explore the powerful themes of faith and self-trust. Join us as we delve into how to cultivate genuine faith in ourselves and in the universe—not the cliché wooden home decor sign kind of faith, but a deep and authentic trust in the natural flow of life. Tune in with Lauren Douglass and Brad Stuart to discover how faith serves as the antidote to feelings of inadequacy and learn practical ways we are both trying to have more faith in our own lives

11. Somatic Healing & The Body with Lyssa Mandel

Welcome to this week's episode of Holding It Lightly! Join hosts Lauren and Brad as they dive deep into the world of healing and self-discovery with special guest Lyssa Mandel. Lyssa, an incredible somatic healer and astrology guru, joins the conversation to shed light on the intricacies of our bodies and share invaluable insights on the path to healing.
In this enlightening episode, Lauren Douglass and Brad Stuart explore Lyssa's personal growth journey, delve into the fascinating realm of the enneagram (because, obviously), and discuss strategies for healing ourselves and the world around us.
Whether you're seeking guidance on understanding your body's signals, exploring avenues for personal growth, or simply looking for some soul-nourishing conversation, this episode has something for everyone. Tune in this week and embark on a journey of self-discovery and healing with Holding It Lightly!

10. Metamorphosis: Exploring Life, Death, and Rebirth with Florence!

Welcome to Holding It Lightly! This week, we're thrilled to introduce our very first guest, Florence Friebe. Florence wears many hats as an improviser, healer, and spiritual seeker, too. Join us as Florence shares her journey of confronting mortality head-on and experiencing a powerful rebirth through plant medicine.
In this episode, Lauren Douglass, Brad Stuart, and Florence Friebe delve into themes of love, spirituality, and Florence's upbringing in an evangelical environment. She opens up about her process of deconstructing and reconstructing her spiritual beliefs to align with her present self.
Expect a delightful blend of light-hearted banter and deep, thought-provoking conversation as we explore the intricacies of life, death, and personal transformation. Tune in for a captivating discussion - one that's both fun and profound. Don't forget to hold it lightly!

9. What The Hell?

Join hosts Lauren and Brad as they fearlessly dive into one of the most provocative concepts: hell. In this episode of Holding It Lightly, they embark on a thought-provoking journey to unravel the layers of meaning behind this age-old notion. Delving into the origins of the concept, they examine its historical roots and how it has evolved over time.
From its early religious significance to its present-day connotations, Lauren Douglass and Brad Stuart explore why the idea of hell remains a trigger word for so many. They investigate how our current understanding of hell has been shaped by cultural, religious, and literary influences, challenging listeners to consider alternative perspectives.
Through engaging discussions and insightful analysis, Holding It Lightly offers a nuanced exploration of what hell represents to different individuals and societies. Tune in as Lauren and Brad navigate this complex topic with curiosity, empathy, and a willingness to hold it lightly.
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8. Enoughness Part 2

Even more enough!
Tune in to this week's episode of "Holding It Lightly" as hosts Lauren and Brad dive into insightful discussions sparked by the second episode of "Enoughness." Delve into the complexities of dating and the pursuit of feeling "enough" even when seeking a partner with differing desires. Explore the theme of travel and the profound realization that wherever you go, there you are. Uncover the roots of feeling inadequate, whether from societal pressures or childhood experiences, and discover how trust serves as a potent antidote to these sentiments. The conversation extends to financial "enoughness," exploring topics like overspending, debt, and the perpetual cycle of feeling insufficient. Don't miss out on this thought-provoking exploration of the human experience with Lauren Douglass and Brad Stuart.

7. Enoughness: How to Feel Like You Are Enough

Join us as we explore why society constantly bombards us with messages that we're not enough, and how these beliefs shape our lives. In this week's episode, Brad and Lauren take a deep dive into the pervasive feelings of inadequacy that plague so many of us.
We turn the spotlight on the root causes of our collective struggle with self-worth. From societal standards to the influence of social media, we dissect the factors contributing to our feelings of insufficiency.
Through candid anecdotes and thoughtful analysis, we uncover strategies for cultivating self-acceptance and finding peace in our imperfections.
Tune in this week with Lauren Douglass and Brad Stuart as we hold it lightly and embark on a journey towards embracing our worthiness in a world that often tells us otherwise.